Last week I talked about how challenging it can be to shoot portraits, especially when approaching strangers.
I went for it two days ago, and I met Jim Carson.
I spotted him around the Core Shopping Centre. He was smoking while sitting on a bench.
So I told him that I was working on a project for my photography class; I needed help, blah, blah.
He said: “yeah, I can help. Do you want me to remove my clothes?”
“No, it’s okay. It’s a cold day,” I replied.
After taking the pictures, the conversation kept going. That was pretty cool because I really felt I was overcoming my fear.
He’s from New Brunswick, but has been living in Calgary for a while. Even when he already knows what to expect from the weather, he still struggles to adapt.
Jim constantly asked if I’ll do Photography for a living. I said that I’m looking for the balance between writing, photography and design.
He wished me luck and said that if he could take a course on something, that’d be on photography. He’s thinking about it.
If that happens, he hopes our paths cross again to take each other’s pictures.
On November 13th, I’m turning in a Photo assignment that involves portraits.
I must confess that this is challenging for me.
It’s difficult to approach strangers with a professional camera in hand. I feel they’re going to ask me to go away.
Actually, that happened a couple of weeks back. I was at a mall and introduced myself to a guy who had finished lunch. He was sitting at a table checking messages on his cell phone.
He didn’t even reply. He was just letting me speak.
When I told him that I wanted to take his picture, he stood up and said: “no, no, no…if you want, I can go sit somewhere else. Take a picture of someone else.”
That felt weird. I was amazed at how negative his response was. A single “no” was enough.
It’s an experience, anyway. Some people will say yes; some people will say no.
One moves on, right?
Now that I have this assignment, I wonder what’s in store for me.
Yes, I’ll approach strangers. I have to overcome this.
Yes, I’ll do so on my own.
I’ll let you know what happens, and hopefully I will post those pictures here.